Julie Is 18

May. 1st, 2026 04:15 pm
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Oh, my. Julie has turned 18 today. Both of my kids are officially adults.

Despite this, they will always be my kids.

Fetch!

Apr. 30th, 2026 10:13 pm
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K finished her last final at Ball State this morning, so we headed down early this morning (not as early as I'd intended, but that's ok) to fetch her home from school. It turns out that I had managed to misconfigure Google Maps during my adventures in Canada two weeks ago with the result that we ended up taking a lot of back roads going to and from Muncie. I don't think this made things take a *lot* longer, but we certainly saw some entertaining countryside.

With help from Julie, Max, and Felix, everything was loaded into a *very* full van. The room was reconfigured for inspection and then we ran out to grab some lunch and hit the road home.

Calvin and Ruby were taken care of today by a dog sitter who made two visits to the house while we were gone. They seemed happy to see her if pictures can be believed. They were also happy to see us.

The library is now full of a half dorm room full of stuff which will have to be dispatched. Happily, this is not yet my problem. :)

Round and Round

Apr. 29th, 2026 09:18 pm
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I have managed to get all of the critical items set up and configured on Gretchen's newly Linux Minty fresh laptop, so that's one thing done.

The thing that I failed to accomplish today is getting an appointment at our local Social Security office. This is important, because it appears that even if I sign up for COBRA, they will not pay anything, because they want us to have Medicare, which we do not yet have, because we have never needed it, because we had employment-based health insurance.

This might actually be illegal, but one of the things that I am sure of in life is that Larry Ellison has bigger lawyers than I can afford to engage.

We are driving down to pick up K from school tomorrow. While I am driving, Gretchen will get on the phone and see if she can get an appointment so that we can provide the appropriate documentation to go along with our application.

Whee.

New fridge-freezer!

Apr. 29th, 2026 08:21 pm
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New fridge arrived at about 12.15, or a little after; The deliverymen handily got the top-box down for me, jiggled the old fridge out (I had to hide behind the closed door while they got it past the corners in the living room), and got the new one in. It had to sit for at least two hours, probably got three, before being turned on; it is now on, and cooling down - though I can't find the at-least two fridge thermometers I took out of the old one... I expect they're in a bag. The milk has so far lasted OK, standing in a cool bag surrounded by other things, but after I'd eaten I had a nap and have been to Iceland, so an illicit 2L of milk and 6 creme caramel pots are now in the new fridge. It's supposed to want 6 hours, according to the manual, but I expect it can cope with that much after four.

The only disadvantage of it is that the doors don't open completely flat sideways, so I'm going to have to rejig what stands in front of it so I can get round the 'corner' to get things in and out. I'm gradually unpacking a bag at a time of stuff that came out of the kitchen (or was moved from the hall/living-room). The 'veg rack' (originally bought in the 1970s, I think - I had a pair of them, which I bought for paperback bookshelves!) desperately needs cleaning, sorting out, and restacking. And the shelves in the kitchen were emptied and moved for the installation, so they've got to be refilled. And of course the food... I fully expect to be dumping all the frozen stuff, though I knew there wasn't much hope of saving it; but at least it's not a lot. I shall do what I can of that sort of thing tomorrow (I'm pretty much knackered tonight, though might get a few things rearranged), and hope to go out to knit group as normal.

Beko fridge-freezer

Inside of the fridge section

sight

Apr. 29th, 2026 06:44 pm
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 Or rather the lack of it.

Attempts to get back into posting more often were detailed this year by eye issues.

Background - I only have enough vision to read ordinary text in one eye due to untreated refractive amblyopia in the other.

So of course when I developed a retinal tear in Feb it was in the working eye.
Two lots of laser treatment later and I had 'just' lost a little side vision.
Eight days after being given the all clear and discharged from the clinic I have retinal detachment, followed by emergency surgery to try to save my sight.

It was successful but ...
I was discharged home from hospital with no sight left for reading for a few weeks. I could not see anything on my phone screen even with the huge magnifying lens I bought.
I could just make out, although fuzzy, size 18pt font with the 'bad' eye.
I couldn't even call my lift to take me home, I couldn't read the labels on the 4 lots of eye drops (later 5, that I needed to take on 4 different schedules).
It was very scary.
I do now have almost full sight back it the working eye, but those first weeks with no sight in my eye, then just a little sight, terrified me. I couldn't see where my feet were for weeks, I couldn't see well enough to use a knife to prep food.

And of course I couldn't read.
I could just zoom in on my laptop enough to read part of a line of text, but that was exhausting so I missed a lot of posts and I did few updates anywhere.
I am grateful to get me sight back, but where before losing effective sight was a possibility now the threat is too real.

Laptop Blues

Apr. 28th, 2026 10:10 pm
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So that Gretchen wouldn't have to haul back upstairs to file her Social Security and Medicare applications, I figured I'd just borrow the tiny laptop that I got for her a few years ago and use it for the process. Piece of cake, right?

Well, it would have been, except that the laptop had so little charge on it that I couldn't get it to stay awake. Ok, let's let it charge a bit. Now, I should be able to get it to stay powered up.

Google Chrome is so old that I can't get it to connect to the Social Security site. I try upgrading Chrome and cannot, because the disk is completely full. This box only has a 64 GB drive.

I give up. I borrow Gretchen's phone and use it to complete the process. Yay, me!

Then it is back to studying the laptop. The disk is so overrun with Windows 11 that it can't even load updates to the OS. A web search indicates that it's time to give up and install Linux, because Windows 11 will only barely run on the box.

I'm installing Linux Mint now.

*sigh*
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I opened the fridge door today to get milk for my mid-morning coffee ... and the WHOLE DOOR FELL OFF!!! (not *quite* onto my toes...) Casualties, apart from the door - the bottom hinge assembly has crumbled into plastic oblivion - 4 eggs and a jar of pear puree. However, it does kind of make the fridge unusable. I've ordered a new one - similar dimensions, which is important as the Rekitchenation in '09 was pretty much built round my current appliances, but fewer shelves in the door and only 3 freezer compartments.

I've emptied the fridge contents into a couple of middling-size coolbags, and most of the freezer into the giant coolbag. The top shelf flap in the freezer has, as it often does, iced up completely (I'm looking forward to that not happening!), so I've emptied the rest and am leaving it with the power off and the freezer door open; if it won't free up soon I'll take a hammer to it. Desperate situations, desperate remedies...

Then I've got to take all the stuff off the kitchen shelves, to make room to get old one out & new one in; get all the stuff off the TOP of the old one ... and find space to put all that. And the delivery is coming between 10am and 2pm tomorrow, so before 10am tomorrow after I get up I have to move several bags/boxes/etc out of the hall, living room, and kitchen, to make even more room for things to happen. But that can't happen till tomorrow, because most of it will have to go ON THE FRODDING BED. The fridge-top stuff & the shelf stuff will have to go into big tote bags on/in the bath, I fear.

A Mountain of Electronic Paperwork

Apr. 27th, 2026 10:46 pm
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I am digging through a mountain of electronic paperwork. I opened new bank accounts today, because my current bank account at Huntington Bank pays a miserable rate of interest and I have a severance payment that needs to be making something more than they pay. As it happens, my financial advisor was able to point me at some accounts that his organization can provide that both pay a better rate of interest and which have various bonuses attached to them if I meet the requirements, which I *should* be able to do.

I ended up driving to my financial advisor's office after lunch (which was a short drive from Woodfield Mall where I'd just had lunch) to open the accounts and it turned out that I could have just as easily done all of this from home, as they had to hand me a computer and let me file all of the electronic paperwork for that. By this evening, the accounts had both been opened and I was able to move money from my current accounts to make initial deposits. One down!

Having the account number for the new checking account meant that I could use it in my application for Social Security and Medicare as the target for direct deposits, which is one of the things that I needed to do to collect the bonuses from the new accounts. My application is now filed, although there will be a mountain of documents that need to be submitted somewhere. I'm working on that.

Meanwhile, I now need to complete the application procedure for Gretchen tomorrow, which will include determining whether or not she will get more money on her own employment record or the spousal benefit. This means that both of us will need to be here at the computer.

The dogs will not like this.

This week on FilkCast

Apr. 27th, 2026 07:05 pm
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We're off this week, we have an all music show for you. We'll be back next week with a regular show!

Available on iTunes, Google Play and most other places you can get podcasts. We can be heard Wednesday at 6am and 9pm Central on scifi.radio.

Forms, Mr. Rico!

Apr. 26th, 2026 10:18 pm
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I have filled out the forms for Gretchen and me to apply for Medicare. Now I just need to get someone to accept them. This is important, because even if I were to sign up for COBRA for both of us, it is subordinated to Medicare, which we do not have, which seems to indicate that we wouldn't have health insurance anyway. This may or may not be legal, but that probably doesn't matter.

In different news, I have determined that our combined prescription cost at Sam's Club -- excluding our Ozempic and Mounjaro! -- should be less than $100 per month. Given the sheer number of prescriptions that we take, that's pretty good. This does require us to get the prescriptions 30 days at a time, but it's not like I don't get to Sam's Club frequently -- and, of course, the program is set up that way to get you to Sam's Club frequently. :)

It looks like there is some sort of reduced rate available for the GLP-1 drugs, but the landscape is moving so quickly there that sorting out which information is correct is a challenge. And that is one of the reasons that I have an advisor to sort this out...

Learning New Things

Apr. 25th, 2026 10:30 pm
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One of the things that I've been planning to do since getting laid off is to figure out how to do some new things in the studio. Today, it was stupid Cubase tricks.

I pulled up a song that I've been fiddling with in the editor. Then I spent some time figuring out where the heck VariAudio had gone, because when you hide things in Cubase, sometimes you hide them *very* effectively. Having recovered it, I sent it to analyze the vocal track and determine what notes were in it. Then I told it to convert the track to MIDI.

Ok, now I have a lot of entertaining (if not wonderful) MIDI data. I pasted that onto an instrument track and started fiddling with it using the various instruments that are available inside of Cubase. I also moved the track up an octave, because most respectable instruments would prefer not to be in the octave that I sing in. :)

You will not be at *all* surprised to hear that I got nothing at all that was useful. But I didn't *expect* to get something that was useful -- I just wanted to see what I *could* get this way.

I *much* prefer to have my friends singing and playing real instruments on my recordings.

It's interesting to see what sort of sounds you can get out of the software though... :)

More or Less

Apr. 24th, 2026 10:20 pm
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I am getting more things moving, but less things have been moved than I might have hoped. On the other hand, there's that annoying problem of needing to do your research.

I have one form left to fill out before I can go apply to get Gretchen and me on Medicare A and B. Then I need to handle the D and G parts, but I have someone helping with that -- but before I can do that, I need to figure out the exact rules for getting the kids on COBRA, preferably without me. This will require a call to the COBRA administrators. Apparently, there is some possibility that the kids could get 36 months of COBRA coverage -- or maybe even until they are 26! -- but the rules around this are all maddeningly complex. I suspect deliberately so. :)

There's also the possibility of signing them up for a marketplace plan, which *looks* like it might be cheaper, but there's the question of whether you've actually got anything better than a catastrophic plan in that case, given some of the deductibles. I need to pick some brains on this. And check and see which doctors the kids are currently using and whether I would have any coverage in that case.

On the other hand, I have managed to use GoodRx to get a prescription that Gretchen needed refilled at a substantially better rate than I would have if I'd taken it to Walgreens, even with the coupon that the pharmacist was ready to apply. That's a good thing.

And my computer has been returned to Oracle, so they have released my severance. About a third of it got bitten off for taxes, which is not a great surprise. I was already going to make estimated tax payments to land in a safe harbor for next year, but all of that will have to be adjusted in some way that is not yet obvious.

I need to apply to start my Social Security in May, but the website is being a bit stubborn about that, or at least it was when I was trying last week. Maybe it will be different this week since I've been officially terminated. It's hard to say, but I can go back at that. The worst case is that I'll drop the application in on May 1st.

Meanwhile, Gretchen has arranged a dog sitter for the day that we're running down to pick up K from school, so that's good. She's also set us up with a quote to get the asphalt driveway replaced when the neighbors are doing it, which will result in a small discount. They also quoted fixing the front step, but that is not going to happen, because it is way too expensive to fix a relatively small problem.

Things are getting done. I'm just getting tired of spending all of my time sorting these messes out when I *should* be not working. :)

The Play's The Thing

Apr. 23rd, 2026 10:48 pm
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Today was the opening performance of the last play of the season at the high school, "The Outsiders". It wasn't a play or book that I was familiar with, so all new material. It was definitely heavier fare, but the kids did a good job with it and the enormous number of southern accents that were required.

And now it is time to head off to bed. I am still making up my post-FKO sleep deficit and the number of forms and meetings that I'm having to deal with aren't helping. But I will get to the end of these.

Eventually.

Game Report

Apr. 22nd, 2026 11:42 pm
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We left the Cubs game tonight after six innings with the Cubs leading 6-2, because it was darned cold. I should know better than to trust that the temperature near the lakefront would be anything like reasonable on a day like this. But, no. I wore my windbreaker instead of my winter coat. It will be a couple of weeks until my next game due to fetching K from college, so we'll see how the temperature is by then.

The Cubs new remote parking lot is bad in about every possible way. It takes at least 15 minutes longer to get there than it took to get to the Irving Park lot if you are coming from the west or northwest. It is possibly closer if you are coming from the north, but if you were coming from the north, you could just take the Red Line. I am not sure *who* this location advantages.

The lot is a five story tall parking garage. When you pull into the lot, they tell you to scan a QR code and connect to a website to enter the information to get free parking (which takes the form of a 100% discount on 10 hours of parking). You can't connect to the website once you are *in* the garage, because huge mass of concrete blocking the signal, so you have to wait until you are parked and then walk out of the garage where you have signal and complete your data entry. Happily, I have my license plate number memorized, because you will need that to complete the process, along with a credit card that they can bill if the game runs longer than 10 hours.

There was no parking short of the third level when I got there. That's ok, because there are elevators.

Well, it would be ok if the elevators were working. Actually, I was told that they *were* working, but that no one could ride on them, because the City of Chicago inspectors had not yet approved them. This meant that I got to walk down two flights of stairs on the way out and *up* two flights of stairs on the way back in, all of this with my improving, but still bum knee.

Happily, the fellow in charge of such things waved me onto the ADA bus, which saved me a good bit of walking tonight. And since we left after the sixth inning, we didn't have to watch as the gate let cars out of the lot, one at a time. Many, many cars...

It's possible that the space that they used for the remote parking lot last year is no longer available -- that's what happened when it moved to the Irving Park / Rockwell space some years ago due to construction at the university it was at. But that space was *so* much better than this garage.

I think if I were confident of finding parking in the Skokie Swift lot, I'd just drive there and pay for parking and the El.

The Brief FKO Report

Apr. 21st, 2026 09:57 pm
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Let's start by disclosing something: I've been working on a Filk Hall of Fame nomination for Amy McNally for several years now. I keep sending in more data to add to the pile, including a copy of the article she wrote about letting kids touch the fiddle (one of them was my kid), and a full discography which I got from Amy by shyly asking "How many albums *have* you played on?" I'd been considering going to FKO this year for a while, because it just felt like that nomination ought to be ripe.

And then I got an email from Amy asking if I was planning on going to FKO this year and if she could catch a ride with me. Sounded good to me!

Debbie Gates had asked me earlier if I might be going and if I could play some rhythm guitar for her Interfilk Guest concert. This also sounded good to me and now I was committed to going, so...

And then I got laid off, which gave me more time to study rhythm guitar parts. :)

Anyway, I had made plans and booked hotel rooms based on "I'm working on part of Thursday before heading out", so that was what we did, ending up in Jackson, Michigan on Thursday night and driving the rest of the way in on Friday. This meant that we only made it to one of the two rehearsals for Debbie's concert, but that worked out ok.

I wasn't up for the theme filks on Friday, so I ended up in the small end of the big room upstairs and sang a few songs. Then there were the concerts on Saturday and the Filk Hall of Fame induction speeches, which I was greatly looking forward to. :) And then the Interfilk auction, where I suggested drafting Interfilk Guest Debbie as an Interfilk auctioneer. Despite her being worried about it, she did just fine, which was *exactly* what I had expected.

I did not have the right sort of spoons available to go to the memorial filking on Saturday night -- I got a chance to briefly say hi to Sue Jeffers and I wish I'd had a chance to chat with her more, but time was failing at its basic mission of preventing everything from happening at the same moment. I ended up in a tiny filk back upstairs that including John McDaid and we swapped some songwriting stuff back and forth which was fun.

Sunday, there was the Filk Hall of Fame concert which was absolutely lovely. And Gretchen was very thankful for the streaming that let her watch all of the concerts from home so that she could see what we were up to.

The Dead Penguin filk was unsurprisingly large, so it took a long time for our organized chaos to make its way around the room. I sang three songs: "Zeta", because Rand was there and he would actually get all of the references :); "Third Planet From the Sun", because I'd chatted with Tim Griffin about the song earlier as one that could be classified as educational; and then "Shining", because that was the first song that I wrote after COVID and I had wanted to write something positive. And I got a big hug from Judith afterwards, which was a fine thing.

Amy and I got up and managed to get on the road by 7 AM local time, which was really good. We made great time (and found Coffee Crisp on sale at the Onroute, because K wanted Coffee Crisp) right up until we got to Sarnia. There was only one booth open to handle cars at American customs, so we were backed up for an hour. They managed to find someone to open a second booth as we got close to the front of the line and we were the second vehicle through that booth. This was shortly followed (as shortly as possible!) by a trip to the nearby Speedway, because it had become *very* necessary for reasons not at all related to gasoline consumption.

The rest of the trip was simple and included the same good conversation that we'd had on the way to the con. Amy realized that we were going to get in early enough to catch a bus back to Madison and the option of sleeping in her own bed sounded really good, so I dropped her off to catch the bus and headed home.

Then I turned around and went back to the airport when Amy texted me to let me know that I had forgotten to ask for Gretchen's key to my car. Oops...

But I made it home, unloaded the car, and then Gretchen joined me for a happy trip over to Texas Roadhouse for dinner, because a nice little sirloin was in order. :)

This was the first time I'd been to FKO since (I think) 2018. Something went wrong in 2019 to prevent us from going, although I don't remember what at this remove. Then COVID hit, our passports expired, and things were very, very busy.

But things were less busy this year, so that was good. I had a good time.

This week on FilkCast

Apr. 21st, 2026 07:12 pm
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Meg Davis, Sandra Kleinschmitt, Tera Mitchel, Dominic Bridwell, Molly Bennett & Catherine Mock, Erica Neely, ? Dobson, Clif Flynt, Mary Ellen Wessels, Cynthia McQuillin & Kathy Mar, ? Trimble, Gary Anderson, Paul Macdonald, Vinnie Bartilucci, Frank Hayes, Murder Ballads, Crwydryn

Available on iTunes, Google Play and most other places you can get podcasts. We can be heard Wednesday at 6am and 9pm Central on scifi.radio.

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Drive, Baby, Drive

Apr. 20th, 2026 10:41 pm
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Amy and I managed to head toward home starting at about 7 AM ET this morning. It looks like someone didn't show up for their shift at American customs at Sarnia, because there was only one lane open for cars and traffic backed up for over an hour. But they opened a second lane just as we were getting near the front, so we used that and got through customs and to a friendly gas station with a rest room. :)

The rest of the trip was pretty uneventful, the conversation was good, and we were able to drop Amy off to catch a bus home. I've been catching up with Gretchen this evening following the approximately 13 hour trip.

I am really tired. I will probably say more about the con later, but right now, I am going to go unpack...

Sunday, Sunday, Sunday!

Apr. 19th, 2026 10:32 am
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I'm having a great time here at FKO. I really enjoyed the Hall of Fame inductions last night. Of course, everyone did. :)

And now I'm looking forward to the afternoon concerts. Which will be live streamed...
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